Women

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Tomorrow you may get married to a working woman, but before you decide to marry her, you should marry with a few facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; who is earning as much as you do. One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you, because she is as human as you are!

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls, for their culinary achievements.

One, who has lived and loved her parents and brothers and sisters, as much as you do for a quarter of her life. One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her..

…to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your name!

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day 1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen.

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and be ready with the food at the end of the day. Even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more! She is never ever expected to complain.

She is learning just like you are as to what you want from her. She is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won’t like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you.

One, who has her own set of friends, that includes boys and even men at her workplace too.Those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that behind to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities.

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won’t, simply because you won’t like it, even though you say otherwise.

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met. One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her.

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house – your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly – your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

Many may know what is said here, but only a few understand!

2 Responses to Women

  1. Vibha says:

    Great work Meera!!

    I wish many more could relate, understand, and react as expected….

  2. minnie@8206 says:

    What happens if you lose the support of that one person you know in the entire house? It happened to me and I definitely understand what it means!

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